What if you could have the relationship with Jesus you always dreamed of?

  • When you asked a question you'd get an immediate answer?

  • Jesus would tell you what he loves about you and why he's proud of you?

  • It was so easy you could start in two minutes a day?

You can!

Questions for Jesus is a compelling new approach to intimacy with God, based on praying about your relationship instead of what you are doing. It uses simple, relational questions that touch both his heart and your deepest desires:
  • "Jesus, why did you pick me to be on your team?"
  • "What's the first thing you'll say to me when I get to heaven?"
  • "If you wrote me a love letter today, what would it say?"
Intimate Conversational Prayer

How It Works

A few years back I made one simple change in the way I pray—and my percentage of answered prayer went up about 1000%. After 35 years as a Christian, 25 as a ministry leader and 15 of coaching pastors about how to meet God in difficult circumstances (irony alert!), I was still asking Him all the wrong questions.

Based on the ground-breaking book, Questions for Jesus

When I finally figured out how to change the subject to what Hewanted to talk about, it was like our communication went from snail mail to instant messaging—and got way more intimate and revelatory in the process. 

The Questions for Jesus approach is about making that change of subject. It moves us from praying about the business of the Christian life (what I am supposed to do for Jesus) to talking with Jesus about Us—about our relationship. Questions for Jesus are intimate prayers that touch on our deepest desires--like this:

  • “Jesus, what do you like best about me today?”
  • “Jesus, why’d you make leaves green? I mean, you could have made everything gray, or the color of mud, or no color at all. Why green?”
  • “When you called James and John, and they left their business and their dad behind to run down the beach after you—what was going on in your heart in that moment?”
  • “Jesus, what did I do today that made you laugh?”


If you'd like to learn to pray like that--and hear Jesus reply profoundly in 30-60 seconds--this interactive course is for you!

What People Are Saying...

  • Five Stars

    "The text, on-line training and workshop all worked together to make this a great learning experience. Rated 5 stars out of 5!"

  • Best class of my life!

    "This is the best class I have ever taken in my entire life. I can't even believe what's happening. [It rates] 100 out of 10. This is the biggest boost in my relationship with Jesus since getting baptized."

  • I will be recommending this to friends

    I will be recommending this course to friends!! I became more confident with hearing God speak to me through this course!!

  • Love the interaction

    I really appreciate the interactive part of this course. Hearing and reading what others have to say has given me a broader view of God. I always learn more while trying things out too. I love the breakout groups. (even the timer)

Course Curriculum

  • 1

    Welcome to Questions for Jesus!

  • 2

    Session 1: Praying Your Desire

    • Introduction

    • DOWNLOAD: Session 1 Handout

    • Video: Praying Your Desire

    • ACTION STEP 1: Post What You Hear

    • ACTION STEP 2: Post What You Heard

    • WEEKLY ACTION STEP: Do the First Meditation

    • ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

  • 3

    Session 2: The Heart Model

    • Introduction

    • DOWNLOAD: Session 2 Handouts

    • Video #1: Jesus' Desire

    • LISTENING EXERCISE: Just to Talk

    • ACTION STEP 1: Post What You Heard

    • Video #2: The Heart Model

    • ACTION STEP 2: Post What You Heard

    • ACTION STEP 3: What Is Desire? Take the Quiz!

    • Video #3: Coaching Demo

    • ACTION STEP 4: Practice Drilling Down

    • WEEKLY ACTION STEP: 2nd Meditation

    • ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

  • 4

    Session 3: The #1 Obstacle to Hearing God

    • Introduction

    • DOWNLOAD: Session 3 Handouts

    • Video #1: Opening Encounter

    • ACTION STEP 1: Post What You Heard

    • ACTION STEP 2: Post What You Heard

    • Video #2: The #1 Obstacle to Hearing God

    • ACTION STEP 3: Post What You Heard

    • Video #3: Ask in Faith

    • ACTION STEP 4: Take the "Ask in Faith" Quiz

    • ACTION STEP 5: Rewrite the Wrong Questions

    • ACTION STEP 6: Practice Drilling Down

    • ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

    • Weekly Action Step: 3rd Meditation

  • 5

    Session 4: Desire in Scripture

    • Introduction

    • DOWNLOAD: Session 4 Handouts

    • Video #1: Introducing James 4:1-4

    • EXERCISE: James 4 Bible Study + Quiz

    • Video #2: Desire Principles in James

    • ACTION STEP 1: Post What You Heard

    • Video #3: How to Move from a Worldly Object to a True Desire

    • ACTION STEP 2: Detaching Your Desires from the World

    • WEEKLY ACTION STEP: 4th Meditation

  • 6

    Session 5: The Five Guidelines for Praying Your Desire

    • Introduction

    • DOWNLOAD: Session 5 Handout

    • Video #1: Opening Encounter

    • ACTION STEP 1: Post What You Heard

    • Video #2: The Five Guidelines: By a Rhema

    • ACTION STEP 2: Post What You Heard

    • Video #3: Using Logos with Rhema

    • ACTION STEP 3: Post what you heard

    • WEEKLY ACTION STEP: The 5th Meditation

  • 7

    Session 6: A Good God

    • Introduction

    • DOWNLOAD: Handout #6

    • Video #1: A Good God

    • ACTION STEP 1: Post What You Heard

    • Video #2: Experiencing the "Goodness of God Game"

    • ACTION STEP 2: Post What Touched You in the Game

    • ACTION STEP 3: Play the "Goodness of God Game"

    • ACTION STEP 4: Post About Your Game

    • WEEKLY ACTION STEP: The 6th Meditation

  • 8

    Session 7: Expanding Your Prayer Vocabulary

    • Introduction

    • DOWNLOAD: Session 7 Handouts

    • Video #1: Crafting Desire Prayers

    • ACTION STEP 1: Post Your Creative Question and Jesus' Response

    • Video#2: Getting Creative

    • ACTION STEP 2: Post a Creative Prayer

    • WEEKLY ACTION STEP: 7th Meditation

  • 9

    Session 8: Connecting with Jesus' Heart

    • Introduction

    • DOWNLOAD: Session 8 Handouts

    • ACTION STEP 1: Review and Vote

    • Video #1: Jesus' Desire to Be Known

    • ACTION STEP #2: Journal and Post

    • Video #2: Fellowship of Sufferings

    • ACTION STEP #3: Post your response

    • WEEKLY ACTION STEP: 8th Meditation

  • 10

    Wrap Up

    • FINAL ACTION STEPS

    • Give Some Feedback Before You Go...

About Your Instructors

Leadership MetaFormation Founder and Director

Tony Stoltzfus

The Founder and Director of Curriculum Development of Leadership MetaFormation, Tony has been a coach and coach trainer for over 20 years. A lifelong student of personal change and personality type, Tony is a highly-sought-after transformational coach with a worldwide clientele.

A leader in the Christian coaching movement, Tony has trained thousands of coaches, co-founded several coaching schools and created a wide range of leadership resources used around the world. He is the author of a dozen books on coaching, including Coaching Questions, the top-selling coaching how-to on Amazon.com.

Tony developed Coach22.com, an on-line Christian coaching bookstore and publisher of Christian coaching resources, and is creator of The Calling Journey, a research-based online calling timelining tool.

Tony travels widely, leading workshops and speaking on heart transformation and coaching. He is known as a speaker for an interactive, adult learning approach to training that fully engages participants, and for a high level of personal transparency. He and his wife Kathy have two grown children and reside in Redding, California. He enjoys being in nature, watching the stars, reading, laughter and projects around the house.

Certified MetaFormation Trainer

Chris Frost

Being a Christian leader can be challenging. You lead because you want to impact the lives of the people around you and see them come closer to Jesus, yet often end up wondering if you’ve had any sort of lasting impact on their lives. I’ve felt that frustration too.

That’s why I’ve partnered with Tony Stoltzfus and Leadership Metaformation to bring you Questions for Jesus and the Encounter Coaching series of workshops. Tony is a pioneer in the Christian coaching movement, co-founded an international coaching school and created a wide range of leadership resources used around the world. He is the author of a dozen books and is a best selling author on Amazon.

Personally, I've worked in various leadership development capacities since 2002 and exclusively since founding Strata Coach Ltd. in 2016. I’ve helped hundreds of leaders from around the world learn these tools and take them back into their sphere of influence (church, business, family). They have in turn taken these skills and helped countless others.

I'm excited for you to join us.

Discover the connection with Jesus you've always dreamed of.